I get paid and half of my check goes to other people. I hate that I can't tell people that I care about "NO" especially when I know they need it. But I am so fucking frustrated right now. I really hate answering my phone because I always feel like someone is about to ask me for something. If I ignore them they tweet me, "Hey I just called you." Like I can't see that.
I need to go on a people cleanse. No phone. No facebook. No twitter. Nothing. I feel like I can never save because I'm constantly giving. But naturally I am a giver, its in my DNA. If I have it, I give. I feel like I am being selfish if I don't, but I am definitely at a breaking point. Please pray for me and my pockets.
2 ppl were sincere:
Girl you need to say no. It may hurt their feelings but did you ever think that maybe you are enabling them? They are adults and if you can work hard for your money, they can do the same thing. That's not fair that you are stressed out because of another's doing. Say no, honey. They will thank you one day.
girl you have to start saving for a rainy day. sometimes when you say yes to others you are saying no to yourself. Im not saying be selfing, but u gotta help yourself if you cant afford it, you cant afford to help them.
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